Players understand the field is their base to get whatever goal they want to score.
In every player, there is a serious person within. I got to know this during my online counseling sessions with DAVID. this was when he gave me the reason why he is never serious with any lady. he uses them and flings them.
He told me that he used to be in love with a girl who was his first love from a very humble background, so he spent the savings he made from his petty business sponsoring his girl through her Nursing degree.
After she was through with her degree, she walked up to him to tell him that she had fallen out of love with him and for that, she could not settle down with him as a wife.
Today as I’m sharing this with you, she is married with three kids to an older and wealthy man. This particular act changed Dave and he deals with ladies anyhow without conscience.
Now, the secret to every player is that when playing on the field, they are concentrated on getting the ball and scoring goals, and moving on. A player only settles to be serious when he is brought to a HALT.
Most player guys were never born with such attributes but circumstances changed them, it could be Background, cyber influence, friends, peer pressures, Movies, or ladies as well.
Now how do we bring a player to a halt and as such prioritize you as an option one?
Definition: To be defined as a lady or woman, you need to know who you are and as such express yourself to him who you are. When you are defined you are accepted as such.
Be calculative and not Manipulative: Never play with a player in a manipulative game, he understands 70% rules and lines of Manipulation. give him something you solved out yourself and with your convenience not his already understood language.
Boundaries: Players understand the rules of boundaries which is why when a footballer is getting to the goal post of the opposite team, he places his hands at his back to avoid foul play when he wants to score a goal. Let him know your do’s and don’t and respect his.
Fake persona: Be real and never live a fake life and this will make him see you as a real and serious person.
Independence: women and ladies who are independent command respect from their attitude. he will never see you cheap whatsoever.
Appreciation: No matter the little thing a player does for you either gifts or kindness, never fail to appreciate him genuinely. this will activate the soft spot in him towards you, even when he plays hard to get he is human he will change for the better if he is truly yours.
Patience: take things naturally, never force yourself on him. let things flow naturally and be patient with him, so he won’t see you as a desperate and cheap person.
Practice LDRs: I talked about the idealness of LDRs in my podcast and it’s very educative too. Go listen to it.
Assumptions: never live in assumptions as a single lady, if he has not proposed yet, no need to give him all the benefits of a wife. yes, you need to keep him craving for the benefits of you as a wife.
Remember that we are in the process of getting him to a halt and then prioritize you. if you follow these points diligently it sure can lead you to where you want him to place you as option one. Never force yourself on him, if you try these actionable points and he doesn’t seem to be coming, wait for yours, yours can never stress you.
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Loves Mumzibah.
