Many partners try to hide this under the carpet, but by and large we are all in it and we do understand what it takes for two separate individual from separate background to live suddenly under a roof, its not easy at all.
In this topic I will be showing us the 6 serious things that could lead to friction in marriage in order for us to be aware off them and abstain from it.
- Secrecy: I conducted a poll some time past in November, and i asked to get people reaction towards what they feel they hate in a partner and that could easily lead to break up in a relationship. and the percentage of secrecy from a partner was very high. this attitude, people engage in it especially so as to get some sense of protection from an ugly truth. this is really bad. some husbands are so secretive that they even hide financial details from their wife, this is not supposed to be so. it is proper people find a way to unleash the truth to their partners and not hide them, there are a lot of romantic and understanding ways.
- Sexual Dissatisfaction: sex is important in marriage and this should not be over looked. when an individual be it man or wife do not get satisfied in bed, there is a frowning inside. sexual satisfaction is not all about the number of times a man or wife request for sex from her spouse or the number of times they made out. because their is probability that a man or woman might make out and still not be satisfied. sexual satisfaction is gotten from the enjoyment and the fulfillment from the expectation you got during sex, #mumzibah.
- Irresponsibility: this is not welcoming to many people to live with an irresponsible partner, it is not encouraging and it could lead to the crashing of that marriage or relationship as the case may be.
- Infidelity: Frowning is sure at this in many relationships too, because not everybody will love someone else to share in his or her honey. when a man cheats on his wife or vis visa, even when he or she ask for forgiveness, the scar is very hard to erase from the heart and memory of the other spouse, so it is much safer if infidelity is much avoided in a relationship.
- Sudden change in family traditions: a lot of families have their separate family traditions and if broken, it causes friction in the family. this traditions are laid down patterns in the family or between the couple for a long time. when there is a change in the pattern, there is a suspicion that an intruder is already between the couple and that spells trouble.
- Not spending quality time together: couples should spend more time together as this strengthens the relationship and bonding. family that bonds together are family that fights intruders together. this period when a man spends quality time with his spouse and visa viz, they will have the opportunity to share their dos and don’t, fear and strength with each other.
